New in the city, Gothenburg, figured it could be pretty boring. Already a big ri

New in the city, Gothenburg, figured it could be pretty boring. Already a big risk, even if you're native here. To me, it feels bad, if I waste doing stuff on weekend.
Looked as if you 

I'd be really happy to talk to you. But text just isn't for me.

And it's with anyone, even my closest friends, my family, anyone, except for, let's say phone salespersons. You've actually been really pleasant to text.

I might have a bit of ADHD. Really energetic on the inside. Very calm on the outside. When I text someone, I think about how every word could be interpreted, every delay, depending on when the person I'm writing to is reading it.

When I speak over the phone, I don't really think about it at all. When I meet people, I can see how they react, you get information from all over the place => I don't have to think.

Also, I think when someone reacts differently - Like you did (I wrote enormous amounts of texts, and you were just very calm, patient and collected), I think some part of my brain gets curious, as to where your line would be drawn. Then it kind of decides to push the envelope a bit more.

I'm really confused that you got stressed out about that over investment feeling, rather than feeling that I seemed pretty crazy, to write that amount texts.

That makes me think you're kind of very tolerant or accepting of people who are kind of unusual, which is very unusual. I think normally, people would be scared of the craziness part.

Yea, yea
It would be fun to talk at some point in time.
But text, no.

I also felt some weird pressure that you didn't know many in Gothenburg, not pity, it is just difficult to create some good stable social network, it is due to chance. So, besides the text thing, thinking about thousand things at ones, I got stressed that you wouldn't like the experience of Gothenburg, and I kind of wanted to keep you company, or be available some how, especially since I seem to like you for some reason. It was tricky for me to do that while meeting people or doing things, but I wanted to.

Gotta sleep. A beetle keeps flying into my night lamp.
Bats in this attic, flying past silently now and then.
Just noticed that there had been standing an empty old baby cradle close to my bed. 
Found out that they recorded horror movies in here, because of the spookiness factor.
Bats = Surprisingly quiet flying




Only time I'm not stressed when texting friends is basically saying: Let's go out now



Noted in the pub, that you didn't seem to be among friends. And you've might unintentionally have come across as intimidating.

I was kind of worried that you didn't know a lot of people. And even 

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