I tried really hard to create a good profile but it didn't turn out very well. I tried really hard to create a good profile but it didn't turn out very well. Swiping for serious stuff. This covers 90% - Want some that is very bright, and thinks in an ADHD way (or HSP or a bit on the spectrum). For some reason, I get some unusual, deep connection with those. By Into: Very bright/talented, ambitious ones. Strange, complex, deep, warm. Want: Someone with a current count of 0 children, that want more. Preferably pretty much right away. Someone that is left-wing and that is not a conspiracy theorist. I know my profile isn't that good. It's really easy to specify what will work out. Info: I've always thought I wanted someone who was as close as possible to being crazy without crossing the line. I also am into really talented/bright women. Apparently, I'm probably kind of neuro divergent, and have been like that since always, without knowing it. And I believe very strongly, that I will be way more synched up, if someone is kind of similar to that, or compatible with it in some way. I never understood what it was, seems it's the calm version of ADHD. I haven't had any trouble with school, work, relationships or stuff like that. Except that I've known that I've always thought in a really different way. Could do math courses in Chalmers that people studied two months for, in two days and pass. Getting good jobs has always been easy as well, and getting high income jobs is really easy as well. I started a company and I figured out, that it was possible to work at 40% and get a full time average engineer salary from that income, and currently, due to deductions and stuff like that, I think I'm getting twice that amount after taxes and stuff, for the next 5 months or something. (But the deductions rely on me doing some music work as well outside of that) I have a lot of interests & hobbies, that are either different projects with friends and/or creative stuff. Have been writing music for about 25 years, and played piano for about 30 years. And the first song I wrote and recorded, when I was 15, ended up on TV by accident. I'm non-authoritarian left-wing, and can't be with anyone that is center or more right-wing than that, or apolitical. Though I really dislike politics. I avoid eating meat / fish at home (feel sorry for animals). Despite being crazy about eating meat / fish / shellfish. Hypocritically, I'd like someone that is better than me at avoiding it. There is no point in writing more. Except that I want to start a family with someone from scratch. I saved up a lot to start a family, the last decade, so I used parts of that to start the company, and have been able to live without any income at all for the last two years. I also like / need to exercise a lot, so kind of need someone similar. (I could mention my appearance, if that isn't clear from the photos. I look kind of abhorrent, that's not a negative thing to say. I got some regular thinning hair in the front. A lot. Being long haired is accepted now, and being bald is very accepted, the combination is the worst thing you could do, appearance wise. There are probably laws against looking like this in most countries. All, while being more natural than anything, and while being less boring than each, and less predictable. I think I've seen about 4 men in Gothenburg ever that had that combo. I'm very curious as to how people perceive you. Basically, provokingly ugly, will being all natural, without having to resort to artificiality, while examining how people react to you differently, is unresistible. And while following something that would be classic pre-historic men's fashion, which is for some reason the most, or one of the most, controversial looks today. For some weird reason, women in the real world, doesn't seem to care one bit, it is almost the opposite. You get more phone numbers, hit on more, more compliments, get asked out more and get jumped more as far as I can tell. Which makes absolutely no sense. So, I'm currently doing some experimental field work. ) At some point I thought that I'm really bad at this dating stuff, so I just thought that I should make it easy and go for women that are really really really good looking until the point that men are afraid of them and start acting strangely around them. Because if someone is normal looking or good looking, they are really approachable. So, that stuff worked out, but it turned now that I have hard time behaving like what is expected of me when it comes to dating. When I met girlfriends, and I was/seemed very difficult, impossible or even rejected them, they thought it was really funny and exciting. When I do the same thing otherwise, they get really annoyed with me, think I'm rude or cruel even if I don't mean to. I thought they would really like it since my girlfriends seemed to like it. Everything that worked out with my girlfriends makes At some point I thought that I'm really bad at this dating stuff (I just thought I'm really horrible at hitting on anyone, though I never really tried, for that reason), so I just thought that I had to go for women that no one hits on, and I just noticed that when women were over the top good looking, men got afraid of them and didn't approach them or they got totally strange around them, so I just thought "I'll take those then", and that worked out. It feels kind of strange because it feels like they don't require the same amount of validation and aren't as insecure when it comes to dating. (I don't care about insecurity one way or the other, but I think it's a bit impractical when it comes to dating contexts). When I tried Tinder it was really strange because it felt like a lot of women waited for me to do something. I never experienced anyone do anything like that in dating contexts before. So, that was very confusing. 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